Friendship

One time I ever agreed that the friendship will pass the test. Miqdaad've been there. And I think almost everyone has experienced it. When the problem through, sometimes I felt sad when it happened maybe I never really hurt my friend, be it through words, actions, deliberate or (feel) is not accidental. Many a heart as soft as silk ...
  But believe me, behind all the mistakes, true friends never seriously wanted to hurt her friend.Why am I suddenly writing this? Because I recently encountered two cases of people who have been friends a long time, years, a sudden quarrel because (little) a misunderstanding which I think is great potential to return to make up. But later it turned out one of the parties feel 'not wanted anymore like the old days' because in her eye 'incident' is too painful. His friend hurt verbally and body language. And then both are deteriorating relationship even though they are spoken.At first I was confused, how can a friendship that has existed for so long that the level of 'no longer able to repair not only his second event?. But then I realized, as 'outsiders' I am not able to judge anything, because somehow I've never really been in that situation.
This event was later made me think long. Keeping things are far more difficult than when it started. Suddenly I remembered my friends. People who for me really special. I am sure, with all my imperfections, there must have been moments where I've mistake, deliberately or not. There must be.
Suddenly I remembered my friends, which to my average has a great soul, tenderness, affectionate, full empaty, good listener and is always figures look when they want to exchange my mind. Although for the topics vary. I feel sooo grateful to have been rewarded friends are so wonderful.Yes ... for me, my friend is a gift;
Because, behind all my deficiencies they still want to exchange news, either by sms, sms, phone, chat briefly, advising each other, encouraging, exchanged brief emails, even long emails that sometimes it takes several days return .
Yes ... for me, my friend is a gift;Because they are not only advised me but I hope also to forgive me (hopefully). Because we thank God it is still catching up with each other.
Yes ... for me, friends are trustworthy;As it turns out penjagaaan a serious need to stay beautiful forever. Back to the events above, when talking with one of the parties in conflict, then a lot of wisdom that then I can get. These things at once become meditations on the things that probably also had my break when interacting with my friends.When your friend feels hurt, hurry up introspection, perhaps you are right for you but for her heart has been hurt. Nothing wrong with starting to apologize;Become a friend of need empathy, understanding the feelings of others;Being a friend should be ready to be 'a good listener'So first. Hatur nuhun for friends who are always forgive my mistakes, so that even today still continues to tell each other ... you are really valuable.And I always believe that true friends never really intended to hurt his best friend