Friendship

What we have experienced for the sake of friends sometimes exhausting and annoying, but that's what makes friendship have a wonderful value.
Friendship often presents some trials, but true friendship can overcome the temptations that even therefore grow together ...
Friendship is not created automatically but requires a long process, such as iron menajamkanbesi, so a friend sharpens his friend. Friendship stained with various experiences joy and sorrow, comfort-hurt, note-disillusioned, heard-negligible, assisted-rejected, but these have never intentionally done with the aim kebencian.Seorang friends will not hide faults to avoid disputes, precisely because of his love he ventured to rebuke what it is. Companions never wrap a blow with a kiss, but state what is very painful with the aim of his friends want to change. The process becomes a friend of a friend takes effort maintenance of fidelity, but not when we need help then we have the motivation looking for attention, help and love A statement from others, but instead he gives beriinisiatif and realizing what is needed by his friend. Longing is to become a part of life best friend, because there is no friendship that begins with self-important attitude. Everyone is going to need a real friend, but not everyone got it. Many people are already enjoying the beauty of friendship, yet There also are so devastated by his best friend betrayed.
Some things often become destroyers friendship among others: 1. Business problems Constitution (the edges Money) 2. not open 3. Discredit 4. Changes in feelings between the opposite sex 5. Infidelity. But the destroyer has been successfully broken friendship by the friends who stood the test of authenticity motivations. This I give an illustration of the importance of a friendship, it is up to comment anything about the following illustration

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Friendship

One time I ever agreed that the friendship will pass the test. Miqdaad've been there. And I think almost everyone has experienced it. When the problem through, sometimes I felt sad when it happened maybe I never really hurt my friend, be it through words, actions, deliberate or (feel) is not accidental. Many a heart as soft as silk ...
  But believe me, behind all the mistakes, true friends never seriously wanted to hurt her friend.Why am I suddenly writing this? Because I recently encountered two cases of people who have been friends a long time, years, a sudden quarrel because (little) a misunderstanding which I think is great potential to return to make up. But later it turned out one of the parties feel 'not wanted anymore like the old days' because in her eye 'incident' is too painful. His friend hurt verbally and body language. And then both are deteriorating relationship even though they are spoken.At first I was confused, how can a friendship that has existed for so long that the level of 'no longer able to repair not only his second event?. But then I realized, as 'outsiders' I am not able to judge anything, because somehow I've never really been in that situation.
This event was later made me think long. Keeping things are far more difficult than when it started. Suddenly I remembered my friends. People who for me really special. I am sure, with all my imperfections, there must have been moments where I've mistake, deliberately or not. There must be.
Suddenly I remembered my friends, which to my average has a great soul, tenderness, affectionate, full empaty, good listener and is always figures look when they want to exchange my mind. Although for the topics vary. I feel sooo grateful to have been rewarded friends are so wonderful.Yes ... for me, my friend is a gift;
Because, behind all my deficiencies they still want to exchange news, either by sms, sms, phone, chat briefly, advising each other, encouraging, exchanged brief emails, even long emails that sometimes it takes several days return .
Yes ... for me, my friend is a gift;Because they are not only advised me but I hope also to forgive me (hopefully). Because we thank God it is still catching up with each other.
Yes ... for me, friends are trustworthy;As it turns out penjagaaan a serious need to stay beautiful forever. Back to the events above, when talking with one of the parties in conflict, then a lot of wisdom that then I can get. These things at once become meditations on the things that probably also had my break when interacting with my friends.When your friend feels hurt, hurry up introspection, perhaps you are right for you but for her heart has been hurt. Nothing wrong with starting to apologize;Become a friend of need empathy, understanding the feelings of others;Being a friend should be ready to be 'a good listener'So first. Hatur nuhun for friends who are always forgive my mistakes, so that even today still continues to tell each other ... you are really valuable.And I always believe that true friends never really intended to hurt his best friend

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Meaning of friendship

What does it mean for you friend? How important they are for our lives? And how do we maintain a friendship?
     One day nobody ever told me about a story in the days of Prophet 'alayhi wasallam. I forgot my editor and forgot to focus the story on Prophet 'alayhi wasallam, or at one of his companions (please if anyone knows more alert). It is told that he is very glorifying one's friends and treat them in such a way so as to appear for each of their respective companions is the most special.Yes ^ _ ^ cool.
   Four years ago, several months after graduation, in the month of September, one a friend sent me a card once advised me "Do not ever forget your friend, because at one point she could be wrong but at other times he has also been doing good" (thx ya bu, 'ee may have forgotten, but always kept his cards, let alone that your advice ^ _ ^) Pun me a peek at another time a friend's blog, he said there are a few sms that never abolished. One is the sms reads: "What news is Faith? Hope is always moving forward. What Hearts news? hopefully always be clear of gray.How are you Love? hopefully always longing perspire. " Sms It also never erased, advising each other's cool because

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